When should a couple seek to use the Marriage Minders' – ER Kits?
When communications between the partners often takes on a tone of being negative, hostile, or antagonistic to each other.
When arguments have led to violence or physical fighting, such as slaps, shoving, hitting, or holding down.
When things have become so bad that one partner leaves home overnight or longer.
When marital problems cause one spouse to become depressed, anxious, drink excessively, feel insecure, or lose their self-esteem.
Whenever one or both partners avoid or withdraw from the other or develop a lifestyle that excludes the other against their wishes.
When there are sexual problems in the relationship that cannot seem to be solved, and especially if the sexual problems cause bad feelings or frustration.
When either marital partner is seriously considering having an affair or has been unfaithful. This is true even if the affair is non-sexual but the feelings that have developed are of closeness and intimacy.
When a child is having serious problems and the parents disagree on how to handle the problem.
Whenever a couple agrees together that they have problems and do not know how to change things or solve their differences.
When there is excessive jealousy present without reason.
When a spouse acts out feelings with actions that are spiteful, mean, hateful, or vengeful
When the feelings of "us" in the marriage become replaced with feelings of "me" by one or both partners. That is, when what one spouse wants to do is more important than what is best for them as a couple.
When there is a feeling that the partners are just sharing living quarters and not really sharing a relationship together.
When partners stay together just for the sake of the children and would otherwise divorce.
If communications are so bad that most talks about problems end up in arguments or verbal fights.
When partners in a marriage want to be proactive in the maintenance and management of their marriage.
When partners in marriage want to ensure that their marriage is maintained by a set of tools that they may use to tune up their marriage.
When educated partners make an informed decision to ensure that their marriage will stay its course and not become just another divorce statistics.
What is the difference between marriage counseling (family therapy) and Marriage Minders’ – ER Kits?
Marriage counseling begins when the course of marriage takes a wrong turn and arrives at the doorsteps of divorce. When there are obvious cracks at the seams that bind a relationship or when the connection between partners in marriage seems to be lost or when two individuals in marriage are “walking on thin ice”, marriage counseling or family therapy is the most appropriate route and method to save the marriage. Marriage counseling makes an attempt at amending broken lines of communication or resetting a relationship that is going off the normal course. Marriage Minders’ ER kits primary function is to stop any marriage using these systems from getting there. Why take a chance? Why live in ignorance and let a marriage wander off its course? Why not ensure that partners in marriage understand what a marriage is all about and make it stick to its course and have it function the way it should! Marriage Minder works on a premise that educated and well informed partners in marriage will avoid having the troubles that rock most marriages and land them on the couch of a marriage counselor. This is the primary difference.
What do couples usually get when ordering one of the ER Kits?
There are other several different types of kits and they come in various formats. From instant downloads from our FTP sites to well dressed express mailed packages, we have a variety of Kits to select and order from. Please visit the Order Now page to review what each specific ER kits contains. The primary program is a deal for both spouses and we affectionately call that: “It’s a Deal” Kit. This Kit is a mutual agreement to uphold principles of marriage and is the most basic and popular product that is completely customizable to every individual’s needs and goals and comes complete with a commitment certificate that may be displayed on any wall in your home along with a wallet sized EZ-minder Honor Card (just like a credit card) for quick reference while on the road or at work. We provide two of each item so that both the partners in marriage have one copy.
Do both spouses have to participate in the process? At what stage the other spouse is introduced to the Marriage Minder - Systems?
It is preferred that both the spouses participate but it is not essential. Some of the programs if selected are for lone rangers or if requested they are modified so that they are presentable to the other spouse that has objections against the program. Upon review of the intent of the program most spouses are willing to participate.
What do I do if my spouse absolutely refuses to review Marriage Minders Programs?
Should one of the spouses or partners in marriage refuse to review the Marriage Minder Programs; acknowledge their feelings but let them have a look at the Marriage Minders Agreement as a “Settlement of Disputes” type of Agreement and represent the ER kit as an official “Legal Paperwork”. Most spouses are willing to review important documentation that will assuage what seems to be the cause of their distress and information that could result in a “settlement of disputes” of any sorts especially if it were a court acceptable document. Present them with such a document and walk away from them. Upon review of the entire documentation and when there is a window of hope, the matters can and will reverse.
How effective is the Marriage Minder System and what is the guarantee that the ER Kits work?
Marriage Minder –"It's a deal" Kit consists of an agreement that partners in a Marriage enter into by which they agree to perform their duties and responsibilities to manage and maintain their marriage. Upon review of the agreement, the definitions along with a variety of marriage management information and valuable knowledge provided, partners in a marriage become more aware and self conscious of their behavior and reaffirm their commitment to themselves and to the marriage. The Marriage Minder ER Kits are effective so long as the partners in marriage are committed to the agreement and abide by the terms and conditions of such an arrangement. Most users of such devices and tools have experienced improvements in their married lives, giving a very positive feedback to Marriage Minder Minder Organization and its affiliates. To Quote: The tools have showed:
How to stop fighting and start problem-solving.
How to improve the communications process.
Learning how to keep a check on oneself and to avoid unnecessary arguments.
How to prevent talking about problems from escalating into fighting about problems.
How to avoid blaming each other and live responsibly.
How to manage overall, health, wealth and the very essence of the marriage.
All of the Marriage Minder ER Kits come with a full money back guarantee. It is the success of these systems that has enabled us to help couples from every walk of life and around every corner of the world to maintain and manage their marriage with ease.
100% Money-Back Guarantee
Ordering is RISK FREE! We Know our products work and that is why we give a 100% Money-Back Guarantee. If you are not satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to the Marriage Minder Organizers within 15 days of ordering and we will gladly refund your money.
